Memories of Al Ruocchio

If you were touched by Al's opera presentations, by his spirit, or his dedication, let us know by filling out the form below. We'll post as many comments as we can and will share them with Al's family.

Alternatively, you may also call the WCPE Listener Comment line and leave your feelings on a voice message: (919) 570-0204.

A Note from General Manager Deborah Proctor: Sadly, Al's health had been deteriorating in recent years. Consequently, he had been pre-recording the voice tracks of his Opera House presentations in his home. For the foreseeable future, WCPE will continue to air on Thursday evenings our collection of Al's home recordings.

Opera legend Marilyn Horne called the WCPE Listener Comment Line in response to Al's death. Listen to her comments. (Real Audio)

A quote from Al himself, as it appeared in WCPE's 25th Anniversary booklet:
"It seems that once the name "Ruocchio" is mentioned, the conversation moves to opera. My son John is a lawyer. The first time he was to plead a case in front of a judge, he was summoned to the bench. He was terrified. However, the judge asked if he was "Kin to Al?" When he said yes, the judge had a long conversation with him about opera. The next time he appeared before that judge, he was summoned again. The judge told him, "I know your Dad likes Mozart, but how about less Mozart and more Puccini and Verdi?"

Dick Storck, WCPE Program Director:
Al and I served together as volunteers on the WCPE Advisory Board since about 1980. I was still Production Manager at 680-WPTF then. At that time, WPTF management restricted their announcers from appearing on other stations. I got special permission to appear on the air to be a guest with Al Ruocchio during his "WCPE Opera House" Pledge Drive nights. The first time I was ever on the air at WCPE was because of my friendship with Al Ruocchio. Al and I hosted many Pledge Drives together over the past 27 years. I always had a lot of fun encouraging Al to "pound the studio table" as he got excited during a pledge break.

I'm especially stunned by the suddenness of Al's passing. I was at Al's house only two evenings before his passing. He was in good spirits and looked well.

Al was an outstanding engineer and the other night we conversed about some antique broadcasting equipment I had. He gave me a specialized connector plug from his home workshop for a rare microphone I have. On my way to his workshop, his wife Eleanor took me by his amazing toy train collection, but that's a completely different story.

Al was indeed a man of many interests and talents and he will be sorely missed by the WCPE volunteers and staff, and especially by me, his friend since 1980.

Bob Chapman, WCPE announcer:
I knew Al Ruocchio only a short time, but one thing was certain: his passion for opera. For many years he produced the weekly WCPE Opera House, from recordings in his and Eleanor's enormous private collection. It was truly a labor of love, and we are all the beneficiaries of their generosity.

I've been in this area only a couple of years but it didn't take long for me to learn how indebted the local opera community is to Al Ruocchio. Week after week he presented outstanding recordings of the operatic literature in all its breadth, introducing lesser known works in addition to the finest performances of the great works of Mozart, Donizetti, Verdi, Wagner, and Puccini. One could hear in Al's voice his great love for this art form known as opera. Those of us privileged to perform here in the Triangle are indebted to Al for helping create and sustain an audience for opera.

A few weeks ago Al joined Larry Kirwin and me at North Hills Stadium 14 Cinema for the first of a series of Metropolitan Opera at the Movies presentations. When I introduced Al to the completely sold-out theater, he received a tremendous ovation no doubt in appreciation of his many years of devoted service to the opera community.

Our hearts go out to Eleanor and the Ruocchio family. As Al was fond of saying as he closed his show, "God bless." God bless you, Al.

John Silliman Dodge, Bellevue, Washington:
Even though we know that death is very much a part of life, we still suffer whenever a loved one passes. Al was known and loved by tens of thousands of opera fans all around the world, as well as those of us in his circle of family and friends. We're poorer for his absence, yet richer for the time he spent among us.

Nick Meglin, Durham, North Carolina:
New to the Triangle from NY several years ago, my first indication that I had actually elevated my cultural resources was discovering WCPE and all it offered. As an opera fan, Al Ruocchio in particular bowled me over with his passion and exuberance for the art and artists. As Seinfeld created a Thursday night "must see" habit for me in NY, Al made Thursday night in Durham a "must listen" ritual. It was such a thrill meeting him at my first station Open House and I looked forward to seeing him each time he attended a WCPE event. I will miss that he's no longer here to share his love for the music with his fans...

Genevieve in Chicago, Illinois:
I am so saddened to hear of Al's death. I looked forward to his voice every Thursday evening. My prayers are with his friends and family.

Sam Dachs in Seattle, Washington:
My wife and I are so sad when we heard that he died. He will always live in our hearts, although we've never met him in person, we feel we've known him, and that he was a friend.

Roberts French in Santa Fe, New Mexico:
Al was one of a kind. His enthusiasm was, and remains, captivating. He cannot be replaced. May the operas go on, in his memory.

Stephen in New Haven, Connecticut:
I was interested to see that Al was an active member of the Knights of Columbus, as I am, and I hasten to extend condolences to his family and colleagues. In paradisium!

Hans Fassen in Nieuwegein, Netherlands:
I always looked forward to Thursday night, to listen to the program. Rest in peace.

Sister Gretchen Reintjes in Greensboro, North Carolina:
My condolences to the family. I have admired the Ruocchio flair in his announcements of the Opera...it has been wonderful to hear his enthusiasm for opera and to know his love and personal affection for the art form which made him such a dedicated "disk jockey" for grand opera. May he rest and peace... prayers for him and his wife and family.

Steve in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I had the pleasure of receiving a personal tour of the basement train collection before it was damaged by Hurricane Fran. Before then I never knew that all trains are "electric." I always looked forward to Thursday nights and hearing Al's enthusiastic intros to The Opera House. May God bless him and his family.

Nick in New York, New York:
Growing up in Raleigh, I often listened to Al on WCPE. Al and the Thursday night opera house kindled a love of opera in me, and whenever I came home from college I always would tune in to Al because he reminded me of my childhood.

Dawn Clasby in Bend, Oregon:
I looked forward to all the warmth and knowledge Mr. Ruocchio shared with us each Thursday evening. I started crying to hear of his passing even though I did not know him. My deepest condolences to his beautiful wife (I know she is, he said so) and to the rest of his family and friends. We will all miss him terribly.

Charlotte Hare in Fayetteville, North Carolina:
Thanks Al for making our lives better by your generosity in sharing your passion with all of us.

Christopher Ruocchio in Raleigh, North Carolina:
Al was my grandfather. I can't tell you how surreal today has been, i was checked out of my eighth grade English class today, not knowing why. I arrived in my school office at St. Raphael's to see both my parents waiting. I confess the reality of the situation has yet to sink in.

I only just started listening to classical music; he lent me a small piece of his collection. I returned most of the CDs, but didn't get them all back. I just realized his copy of Beethoven's 3rd is sitting under my copy of one of Stephen Hawking's books, which is why I only just realized I still had it.

I never got to give it back to him. Rest in peace grandfather.

Dick Hurley in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I am a volunteer at WCPE. Like Al, I am retired from IBM. Last month Al and I were preparing a grant application to IBM for computers for the station. In a email I mentioned his interest in photography and model trains. I asked if he had ever combined these interests and photographed model trains. I included such pictures of mine. Here is his warm reply:

"My photography started when I was 7. I worked for nine years part time in a camera store in Flushing, 2 years of High School and 7 years in under grad and grad. Those were the days you could earn the tuition for Columbia but live at home.

In 1970 I decided that I was going to get my boys some trains they could get their hands on as it was clear the two N Gauge sets were not at all good for a seven and five year old. I started collecting Lionel trains. Now I have one of the largest displayed collections in the SE. I have Lionel, Ives, Chicago American Flyer and some others. If you have any interest you are welcome to visit. The house is open as long as we are here and we are here most of the time."

Al lived a rich a full life and gave much to many people. God bless you, Al. My condolences to the family.

Alan Kardoff in Palm Bay, Florida:
Al's passing is a big shock. He and Eleanor made opera come alive. I loved his commentaries. My prayers go to Eleanor and the rest of the immediate family as well as to WCPE. His enthusiam and excitement about every opera is irreplaceable. Please keep Al alive by rebroadcasting.^* Perhaps in time Eleanor might gain the strength to carry on. Opera mourns. So do we, devoted listeners/lovers.

* Note from Deborah Proctor: WCPE will continue airing Al's Opera House recordings for the foreseeable future.

Glenn Plott in Raleigh, North Carolina:
When Al was on the air talking about Opera, he became a young man's voice as his enthusiam about opera came through the airvaves. He will be greatly missed.

Michael Heath in Smithfield, North Carolina:
Al will be missed! Best wishes to all WCPE DJs and his family!

Don Heynen in Sparks, Nevada:
I was shocked and saddened to read about Al's passing. He was the main reason I started listening to WCPE a few years ago. I loved his enthusiasm for opera and am listening to his final broadcast as I write this note. Goodbye, Al. I hope you get to meet Mozart.

Erin in Raleigh, North Carolina:
He was my best friend's grandfather, and every Thursday night when I was coming home, either from fencing or violin or dance, I would enjoy listening to a familiar voice introduce something I was not otherwise exposed to. Never have I more enjoyed listening to the radio than whenever he was on, talking about a subject he knew better than anyone I know. It's still not within my grasp that I shall not see him again in this life... may he live on forever in the hearts of all.

Holli in Raleigh, North Carolina:
So very sorry to hear of Al's passing. His Opera Night was a highlight of our week. In fact, he was on in the hospital for the birth of our son, who has loved listening to Opera Night ever since. Many condolences to his family & friends, from one of his many radio friends.

Judy Winfree in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I am not a huge fan of opera but when he was on I found myself listening! It was obvious that he was such a lover and he wanted you to hear and feel whathe did. The world just lost its finest opera salesman!

Lowell Roberts in Chapel Hill, North Carolina:
My wife, Asta, and I have listened to Al's Thursday night at the opera for over 10 years. He, and Eleanor, defined Thursday nights for us. In 2005, Asta became seriously ill, spending about 100 days in the hospital. The only normal moment in my life for all those weeks was listening to Al's program as I drove home from the hospital each Thursday. I rarely left before 8:00pm, so I would spend some time identifying the opera, but mostly I just wanted to hear Al's voice between acts, so I could feel grounded, assured that, despite our trial, life went on. Perhaps opera became more real than life to me, because Thursday night anchored me to the world to which I wanted to return. Asta recovered and we still need need opera every Thursday. But Thursday will no longer be the same. Our great sympathy to Eleanor. We have lost a giant.

Vincent Santavenere in Bel Air, Maryland:
I am greatly saddened by Mr. Ruocchio's passing. I am an opera fan and have enjoyed listening to Opera Thursday for several years. He is already missed!

Jerry & Joan Montgomery in Pinehurst, North Carolina:
We discoved Al when we moved to Pinehurst, NC 10 years ago. We were not able to pick up the signal in stereo but we would listen on a very old mono portable radio. We rejoiced that we were able to hear opera no matter how. Al always talked about how long he had been hosting the show. This led us to think that he must be very old and may not be with us for very long. Recently we dicovered that he was a very young 68 and we hoped that he would be hosting opera for many more years to come. It is a shock for us to learn that Al will only be with us in spirit from now on. WCPE has been extremely fortunate to have Al representing & promoting OPERA these past almost 30 years. I hope that Thursday Night at the Opera will continue in Al's name no matter who is hosting the program.

Rich Ehli in Smithtown, New York:
My sincere condolences go out to Mr. Ruocchio's family and friends. As so many others have written, I was stunned to learn of his passing. There was no hint in his wonderful, always upbeat voice. Just as surprising to me was to learn that he was not a professional opera host. Why I don't know, but I just assumed from the first that he was. His comments were always spot on and they spoke (or seemed to) of a life time of intimate association with the opera. While I am sad of heart tonight reflecting on our loss, I am thankful to have known him if only as a listener. His example also reminds me once again that WCPE's volunteer staff sets an extremly high standard of professionalism.

John Jenson in San Clemente, California:
I just heard of Al's passing and regret not sending this message earlier. Although I have a music education background, a mother-in-law who is a former opera soprano and a daughter who received her bachelors degree in vocal performance I never had the patience to listen to opera. That is until I became acquainted with Al's Opera House.

It was obvious to me that Al was very much enthused with opera and that caught my attention from the beginning. I learned to enjoy opera because Al took the time to explain each act and provide historical footnotes that tied the performances together. Al was able to open a door for me that in spite of their best efforts nobody in music school could do. I will miss him.

Laura in Harlingen, Texas:
I'm so very sorry to hear about Al Ruocchio's sudden death. I've been listening about a year, & always enjoyed his opera program. His enthusiasm was evident. He will be greatly missed by all WCPE listeners. "Panis Angelicus" tonight was a fitting tribute. My prayers, also, for Eleanor and all his family and the community at WCPE.

Barb in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I burst into tears tonight when I heard the news on the show. Al first exposed me to opera while I was searching for a classical radio station while attending NCSU in 1992. I began to look forward to Thursday nights since I knew he's be on the air and I would hear something new. A few years ago I joined the US Antarctic Program and was able to stream his show when I got homesick via the internet and a satellite connection. Al could always make me smile with his enthusiasm, bringing some light into the austral winter nights. He touched more people than he could possibly know and I am very, very saddened by his passing. To his family, all I can say is thank you for sharing your time with him and my thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Bill Green of Ketchikan, Alaska:
It is shocking to learn of Al's passing. He was just two years older than I, and we'd both grown up in the NYC area. Like Al,I've been enjoying opera since I was about 5, and often haunted both the old and new Met houses. (I witnessed the debut of Placido Domingo filling in for an ailing Franco Corelli.)

When I settled in Alaska, for many years my radio opera listening was through the CBC, out of Toronto and Vancouver. As the Internet grew, I found WCPE and Al. The Thursday Opera House begins here at 3 PM, and I actually arrange my schedule around that time.

Al and I exchanged a few emails, and found we had much in common, and (another story) so did our mothers. In writing, he would always address me as "Guglielmo Verdi".

All opera lovers fortunate enough to have found WCPE certainly knew they had a kindred spirit in Al. My deepest condolences to his friends and family. He is already missed by thousands.

With little effort, I can imagine that soon Al will be welcoming other newcomers to Eternity, saying, "And you have just heard the very beautiful first section of the music of our own angel choir...."

Anne Shepard in Halifax, North Carolina:
I was so surprised to learn of Al's passing today. I didn't hear about it until a few minutes ago. I was listening to the opera on my way home for a short while, but had no idea that he had left us. Then hearing "Panis Angelicus" was beautiful, but I still had not heard this sad news. I feel that a beautiful listening era has passed, but the memories of Al's wonderful enthusiasm for opera will live on whenever and whereever we hear the melodic and dramatic strains of opera. Thank you,too, Eleanor, for sharing Al and your collection with the WCPE family and the world. We are truly grateful.

Jena Baker in Apex, North Carolina:
Opera was never a favorite of mine until I heard Mr. Ruocchio's programs on Thursday nights. His love of this musical medium was so transparent and I learned to appreciate the wonderful world of opera. I will remember Al and his family in my prayers and I thank them wholeheartedly for sharing this marvelous man with the WCPE audience. Mr. Ruocchio made a difference to all of us, especially those of us who were opera novices. We will truly miss him.

Gene Scarborough in Castalia, North Carolina:
I met Al and opera on late night drives after doing dangerous tree work all day in the local listening area. I had tolerated Opera in the Classical Music course I took at Emory University. What I learned at College was techincal. What I learned from Al was the meaning and importance of the story. His every word exuded love and the reason behind the music.

I can't wait to meet Al in the Great Beyond. By then he will have had time to encounter the opera composers, ask the right questions, and save us all wasted time and useless foolish questions. Al always had answers and explainations to widen our horizons and because of his love, ours began to blossom.

Your cheery and excited voice will be missed until we meet again!

Caesar in Littleton, North Carolina:
Thursday night was always a special evening for me. Al made me enjoy opera even more because of his obvious love for it. Thank you Al. Growing up in New York and paying three dollars to stand in the aisle of the old Met and attending the Amato opera house was my experience when I was young. I will miss his voice. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to his family.

Dennis Reid in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I first met Al at a meeting called by WCPE when WUNC dropped the Met Saturday broadcasts. WCPE was deciding whether to take them on. I remember Al's love for opera and his encouragement to WCPE to add the Met broadcasts. I always considered Al one of WCPE's treasures. I will miss his voice on Thursday.

Laura Kinzinger in Louisburg, North Carolina:
I wept when I read of Al Ruocchio's death. And I wept again when I thought of opera and the vivid memories of people and places, memories that are far stronger than those of attending a live performance: listening to scratchy recordings on an old Victrola with my grandfather, sitting with my parents on a late Saturday afternoon in our living room as light fades and the final curtain falls at the Met, or hearing that glorious music on a tinny AM car radio in eastern NC as my mother drives my sister and me home on back roads, with stippled fields and farms and darkening woods and lovely voices and music moving past and over and through us... and now, now I have the memory of Thursday evenings as I am straigtening up the kitchen --the heart of my home-- and Al's warm invitation, always from him and Eleanor, to share this music. Ah! My grandfather, my parents, and now Al are gone, yet how strongly and deeply they remain with me. To the Ruocchio family and to all, I wish peace.

Carole Stemkowski in Liverpool, Nova Scotia:
Despite my address, I came to Nova Scotia 5 years ago from Chapel Hill, and have been a listener (now on the Internet) since the early 80's. While I am not a bona fide opera buff, it didn't take long for me to realize the true passion that Al had for it. He revered the music, the lyrics, the stories, and shared that enthusiasm that was truly contagious. Bravo, Al!

Juan Rojas in Chapel Hill, North Carolina:
I am a freshman at East Chapel Hill High School and I would like to say about Mr. Al Ruocchio is that he played a great role in making me love opera. I loved especially when he would tell us at the beginning and at the end of the acts what happened. I would always try to finish my homework quickly in order to just listen to the opera on Thursday. When I am at school I always like saying to people when they ask me what my favorite music is, I am proud to say opera and classical music. I owe this all to Mr. Al Ruocchio. I do not know if I would have been an opera fan if it hadn't been for him. I am sure going to miss him very much. May God bless. And may the Opera live for another 10,000 years!

Don English in Greenville, North Carolina:
I was saddened to learn of the loss of Al Ruocchio, the voice of opera, the Milton Cross of WCPE. I will always associate Al's voice with opera. It was wonderful being exposed to Al's broad range of operatic knowledge. Thank, Al. We'll miss you.

Gerald Warden in Midland, Texas:
Bravo to a wonderful man who loved opera so much. He will be sadly missed by all of us.

Mary Soto in Holly Springs, North Carolina:
Al turned me on to Opera when I would ride home from a Ladies Golf League on Thursday evenings. Although I love classical music, I found opera quite a different animal. Al's enthusiasm and descriptions made me look forward each week to a new opera. He wove the stories together as the music played. Today, my daughter has WCPE on 24 x 7, and my 2 year old grand daughter ends her evenings reading books with her Mom while listening to WCPE, including the Opera House.

My condolences to Eleanor and Al's family. Although he is physically gone, his spirit will live on forever in all our hearts. One cannot think of opera without thinking of Al. I am eternally grateful that he opened up a new passion inside of me... Al is a true example of how one person can make a HUGE difference in this world. Much peace and love to all.

Meriwether Walker in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I shall make my future donations to the station in memory of Al, and I would encourage all listeners to do the same. Please continue to air his programs; they are ageless.

Sarah Clark in Raleigh, North Carolina:
Such sad news to assimilate. My husband, Frosty Clark, who died in August 2005 and for many years co-hosted the Saturday Evening Request Program, was an engineer also. Frosty and Al had many lively conversations sharing great knowledge and firm opinions. Both Frosty and Al were on the original WCPE Advisory Board and both shared a special dedication to WCPE and a love of volunteering at the station on a regular basis. A collegue and friend to many, Al will be missed. May God's grace and love sustain and give peace and hope to Eleanor and family.

Ted Johnson in Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida:
As a listener from a distance, I have never had the privilege of meeting any of the WCPE personalities, but I have come to think of them as extended family. Thus the news of Al's passing was received as a death in that family. It cannot be overstated how important his dedication to the opera genre that he loved so much was to those of us spread all over the world who have come to depend on him and everyone at WCPE as our lifeline to the classical music we also love. The broadcasts we hear in the future that he left for us will be received with mixed emotions of sadness and gratitude. Arrivederci, Al, and grazie!

Jeffrey in Westerly, Rhode Island:
I'm so saddened to hear of Al's passing. His passionate delivery of opera each Thursday night had become part of my life. As an engineer and opera lover like Al, I felt a connection to his enthusiasm that will be hard to replace.

Fred Noe in Virginia Beach, Virginia:
I was shocked and saddened when I heard the brief announcement on Al Ruocchio's death at the end of last night's opera... I listened to the Panis Angelicus in tears... he is now with his friend Witherspoon... may he rest in peace.

Rafael Guarisma in Caracas, Venezuela:
To family and Al's relatives, my condolences... I really will miss Al and his valuable comments about the operas I used to hear every Thursday evening. Rest in peace Al, and God bless you.

Catherine Phelps in Hillsborough, North Carolina:
Al changed my life one evening when flipping the radio stations in the car. When I found his program I found a calming peace with controlled excitment. Not weepy love song lows and not too high rock highs. I looked forward to his show every Thrusday. As a stay home mother of young children it was a time I could call my own. He was better than anxiety medications. Even this year I would rush out of scouts and turn on the radio as fast as I could. One scout I took home said before I could get the radio on "aren't you going to listen to the opera?" I hope he will stay that interested for life as I know I am. Al's love for opera spread to me and through me. I will sorely miss his voice.

I thought it ironic he passed on a Thursday. I stayed home from scouts last night and had the radio ready to hear his show when I heard the news. I am not sure why I stayed home this night but was glad I did.

Jerry Miles in Alexandria, Virginia:
I happened across WCPE during my first semester of law school. I have since passed many evenings in the library or studying at home with Mr. Ruocchio. It certainly will be difficult to make it through the final stretch without him. I would like to thank Al for the companionship. This is a very terrible loss. My condolences to his family and the members of WCPE's staff.

Jeffrey Hertel in Sherwood, Arkansas:
I was saddened to hear of Al Ruocchio's passing. I listen to WCPE on the Internet while at work. I was introducted to WCPE last year when i spent five weeks in Rocky Mount, NC on business. One of my happiest memories from that trip was listening to the WCPE Opera House with Al Ruocchio on Thursday nights in my motel room.

Ken George in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I continually marvel at how things happen that you just really cannot explain. About a month ago, I received a free radio from a colleague and had not activated it because of business travel. I decided to get it set up late yesterday afternoon and the first station setup I did on it was WCPE with the specific intent of listening to more classical and opera while I am at home working. I turned the radio on this morning only to find that Al had passed away. I knew him from working at IBM and remember him as a fun and lively, enthusiastic person. Kind of makes you wonder if Al somehow put the idea about hooking up the radio in my head from wherever he is. I am sure he is in heaven because one so passionate about life deserves his share of saintliness. Thanks for the inspiration, Al.

Thomas Barnes in Greenville, North Carolina:
Although I am not a devoted fan of opera, Al Ruocchio's insight and obvious love of both the music, lyric and story helped to make my listening more enjoyable. He helped me to understand many aspects of the subject opera that I would have never been able to devine on my own. I hope that WCPE continues to devote part of its schedule to the opera and to have Al honored, not only for all of the good work that he has done but for his love of the form. I believe that his name should always be connected to WCPE and Thursday nights at the opera.

Terry Marcellin-Little, WCPE Announcer:
If you knew Al Ruocchio, it was easy to see that his life was built around a profound love of family. And not too far down the list, you'd find his beloved opera.

Al's loves merged here at WCPE in this way: he cared for and protected this station like a fierce patriarch, while sharing his life-long love of opera with an extended family of grateful listeners, both near and far.

Parents with strong convictions are not always easy to please, but when you did your best for the station, nobody was prouder than Al. He was passionate about WCPE and had strong ideas about what he felt would best serve this musical "child." When WCPE began to reach new listeners "across our fine nation," his joy was contagious.

I hope he sees how much he was loved, how many he inspired, how much he will be missed, and how his love of WCPE will continue to enrich the lives of so many people, for so many years to come.

Kathy Kalinowski in Cary, North Carolina:
I admit I have an "on again-off again" relationship with opera, but my memories of Al will always be "on". His voice, to me, WAS opera, and I learned much from him. My condolences to his family and fellow members of WCPE. He will be missed.

Dick Annand in Gibsonville, North Carolina:
I am deeply saddened to hear of Al's passing. His enthusiasm and joy of music will be sorely missed. Our Family's prayers go out to The Ruocchio Family and to all opera fans. Al will be missed. God Bless...

Andres Diaz in Mountain View, California:
Al opened my eyes and ears to the beauty of opera about two years ago through his WCPE program. As recently as about two weeks ago, I sent him an email with a suggestion for his program, and Al, befitting his devotion to the genre and his audience, responded overnight. The opera world has lost one its great abassadors.

Jeremy Mittag in Raleigh, North Carolina:
Realizing this site is mainly focusing on Al's love for Opera I just wanted to share one of his other loves: TRAINS. As a child, I was lucky enough to grow up in the same neighborhood as the "Train Man". Al Ruocchio was an avid collector, restorer, and ENGINEER of the largest Toy Train collection imaginable. His love and passion for trains seemed to run deeper with each new grandchild. Being a child in his neighborhood gave me the honor and privilege to visit Al's train museum. Not only was Al the greatest host and provider of this grand adventure, he always invited us back. Little did Al know how many times I would be back to visit. Not only did this great man show ME his museum, he showed my Father, my wife, my two nephews, and my two children. I guess you could say he shared his love of trains with three generations in my family. (30 years worth.) Al Ruocchio was a special man who will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers go to the entire Ruocchio family.

Bill Peters in Pittsboro, North Carolina:
I first met Al when IBM transferred me to RTP in February, 1972. His office was right around the corner from mine. On a trip to upstate New York with him, I learned of Al's love of Italian food (coming from his family I am sure). I lost track of him until I heard him on WCPE's Opera House. His love of opera was apparent in his programming. He will be missed.

Paul Stillman in Wendell, North Carolina:
I enjoyed not only the operas but Al's talking about the operas. It helped my understanding and enjoyment of operas.

John Bimrose in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I have had the pleasure of knowing Al and his family since 1992. I knew Al both professionally and personally and had a tremendous amount of respect for him. He was as proud of a "Poppa" as I have ever seen. I looked up to Al for his wisdom and personal advice and considered him one of my "North Carolina dads". Many a Thursday night he would call the house while he was hosting his program on WCPE. We would discuss radio, electronics, politics and of course TRAINS! You could always expect a lively debate depending on the topic. Our blessings go out to Eleanor, the boys and thier families.

The Opera Company of North Carolina:
All of us here send Al's family and WCPE our most sincere condolences. His indelible mark on the arts in the Triangle will be remembered with joy and gratitude. Addio, boun' amico.

Roy Lindholm in Pittsboro, North Carolina:
I'm writing to extend to Al Ruocchio's family and his WCPE friends my heartfelt sympathy. I am not a big opera fan, so I wasn't a regular listener to his show. That said, I always felt that he was someone worth knowing and in a way a kindred spirit, and I'm greatly saddened to hear of his passing. He brought great pleasure to many people, and I have no doubt he'll continue sharing his love of opera with the Spirits above. My best wishes.

Thomas Brown in Middlesex, North Carolina:
I will miss Al very much. Condolences to his wife....

Walter Aiello in Durham, North Carolina:
Please convey my sincere condolences to Eleanor, the rest of Al Ruocchio's family and his colleagues at WCPE upon Al's passing. Al made all of our lives richer and fuller with his enthusiasm and love of life.

William Bichl in University Heights, Ohio:
My deepest sympathy and prayers to Al's family -- Eleanor and his sons and grandchildren -- and to all at WCPE. I missed the announcement last night on his opera presentation, and just heard of his death this afternoon. He was a valued friend in radio-land and on the Net. I hope WCPE will continue opera, in Al's memory and in his spirit. May he rest in God's peace!

Tommy Denton, WCPE Membership Director:
I always felt I was in the midst of a legend when I was around Al Ruocchio. His commanding presence was a combination of humility and greatness. He is the only person I have ever known that saw Enrico Caruso perform live, and by his own account asked Neil Young to call back later. I have a mental image of Albert and his grandfather sitting in the theater together enjoying a wonderful performance of grand opera. His passion for that art form was unparalleled. He was a patient teacher and kind mentor to me.

Filippo Porco in Carrboro, North Carolina:
Dear Ruocchio Family, I'm so sad that Mr. Al Ruocchio passed away. I used to call him and say "Ciao Mr Ruocchio" and he would respond to me by my name. He made me an Opera fan.

Laura in Oxford, Massachusetts:
Tears for an old friend whom I had never met? Yes. Thanks to Eleanor for sharing Al and their wonderful CD collection with us. Thanks to Al for his enthusiastic assistance in overcoming the opera language barriers! I am glad to hear that he will live on with us for many more Thursdays.

Alex Birukoff in Haddonfield, New Jersey:
First, please extend my sincerest and heartfelt condolences to Al's wife, his sons and grandchildren, and to all that Al has touched with his great enthusiasm and love for opera. Whenever opera is mentioned, one usually thinks of the Met, or the Scala, however, there is no doubt in my mind that those who have ever been in operatic communion with Al, the first thing we think about when we hear opera, it's Al. He represents to me, and always will, the truest representation of the love of this art form.

Tom Chaffiotte in Raleigh, North Carolina:
Christmas will never be the same without hearing Al's program on the Eve of Christmas. We've always enjoyed gathering around the fireplace, listending to Al's selections, "bringing us closer to the spirit that is christmas". He will be sorely missed.

Tim Taylor in Pagosa Springs, Colorado:
Unlike many fortunate folks in this world, I did not have the privilege of knowing Al Ruocchio. Despite this fact, I have learned much about Al and his music through his radio program, which may be one of the finest programs ever to air on a classical station. Al has taken people, like myself, who previously paid no favors to opera and transformed us into lovers of the genre. Still, I don't sit and listen to opera on my own stereo; rather, I wait each week with anticipation of Al's show. I listen with intensity to the music and to Al's narration. Al's knowledge is unsurpassed, his devotion to opera a thing of beauty. Indeed, he is a beautiful man, and I love him dearly.

So, one may ask how a person can love someone whom they've never met. This point needs little explanation actually, as one only needs to listen to his program to realize the full impact of this great man and his love for music, opera, and perhaps most importantly his family.

Margie Satinsky in Durham, North Carolina:
Thursday nights with Al Ruocchio have been a standing date for me since I moved to the Triangle in 1994. Al's knowledge and enthusiasm were remarkable. My sincere condolences to Eleanor and all of Al's family.

Elizabeth Maddox in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I used to say I liked all kinds of music except rap and opera. No more! I started listening to Mr. Ruocchio's program on Thursday nights while I worked. He helped me come to appreciate and enjoy the beauty of opera. Last year I attended my first opera (in Raleigh) and enjoyed it tremendously. His passing makes me sad. I am very grateful that he was so generous with his love of the music and stories. It has greatly enriched my life.

Arianne Marcellin-Little (8 years old) in Rolesville, North Carolina:
I love opera and I loved to listen to Al Ruocchio talking about the music at night. It would make me fall asleep peacefully. I wish that Al was still with us and I really miss him.

Rob Kennedy, host of WCPE's "Peaceful Reflections":
The Metropolitan Opera Saturday afternoon broadcasts were part of my childhood growing up in Montreal. So when I moved to Raleigh in 1999, I was delighted to find The Opera House program with the redoubtable Al Ruocchio.

Frankly, I am firmly convinced that Al forgot more about opera than most people could ever hope to know. His knowledge of the genre was truly encyclopedic, indeed authoritative. Yet his on air delivery had about it that fresh, compelling manner which a true New Yorker exhibits when he is passionate about something. And make no mistake about it: Al Ruocchio was passionate about opera!

Al's departure from this earthly life leaves a huge void in our WCPE family. We have lost a magnificent gentleman who was utterly devoted to the radio station and its mission. He will be greatly missed by all of us opera lovers everywhere. Rescquiat in pace, Al.

Father Rick Rohrer in Cary, North Carolina:
Al loved God, his family, his Church, his fellow man, and all that beautiful, glorious music with such unbridled delight that he imparted his joy in ways that could be called inspirational, as they were to so many of us, but more correctly as infectious. How many times have people, whom I could never picture tuning in to listen to classical music, mentioned Al's name to me with affection! My own life, since being assigned to Saints Cyril & Methodius in Cary eleven years ago, has been reckoned in a deeply personal way by the weekly infusion of beauty and love that was the experience of being caught up in the happiness, faithfulness and goodness of Al Ruocchio. As I write this, I picture him revving up enthusiasm for the choirs of angels, martyrs and saints with his "bravos!" Requiescat in pace!

Roger Williams in Garner, North Carolina:
My heart is deeply saddened by the passing of Mr. Ruocchio. I was never an opera fan until I listened to Mr. Ruocchio describe what each act of each opera meant and it truly enlightened me and I now enjoy opera. You could tell that Eleanor was the first love of his life, followed closely by his family, but opera was the driving force that caused Mr. Ruocchio to continue through the daily turmoils of life. I had to undergo quadruple by-pass surgery last October 25 and this plus my job caused severe stress in my life. I have and continue to tell everyone that your station, and especially Mr. Ruocchio's daily contributions were responsible for me getting through many, many, many, days. He will surely be missed and there is no replacement.

Charlotte Andrews-Arnold in Rocky Mount, North Carolina:
Oh, I will miss Mr. Ruocchio's voice and his enthusiasm for opera which was at least equal to my own and his knowledge of the music which was seemingly boundless. For me it is as though I have lost an irreplaceable friend and a musical soulmate whom I never had the pleasure of meeting in person.

Patrick Payson in Fayetteville, North Carolina:
It was a great honor to listen to Al on Thursday night. His presentation was second to none in my world. With great sadness we will miss this wonderful person. My sincere condolences to Eleanor and all his family.

Kathleen Baker in Atherstone, Warwickshire, England:
It was such a joy to discover Al Ruocchio's exuberant weekly opera presentations on Thursdays, even though it meant staying up into the early hours. The announcement of his death yesterday aroused a real sense of personal grief and loss which is difficult to explain except as a consequence of his passion for music, and opera in particular, which he generously shared with us all. The opportunity of hearing a complete opera every week is something not available to us in this country,and I have enjoyed hearing works which are rarely performed. For this I am grateful for 'The Ruocchio Collection' which has enriched so many lives worldwide.

I was always so touched that Al never failed to include Eleanor in his introduction, and would like to thank her for the obvious loving support which enabled this engaging and generous man to share his passion with us. I offer her and all his family my very deepest sympathy, and feel that she will not mind if I extend that sympathy to all at WCPE who obviously loved him so much.

Richard and Caroline Maness in Wendell, North Carolina:
We enjoyed Thursday evenings listening to the wonderful operas Mr. R. played. We will miss hearing him translate the stories into English. A truly beautiful and talented man. You could hear and feel his love for music when he gave his presentations. We will truly miss him.

Bill Hunt in Surf City, North Carolina:
Al and I used to talk and listen to opera while carpooling to work at IBM. His energy was amazing as he tackled everything from the perspective of doing it well, whether it was WCPE, the church sound system, his trains, or his family. He loved technical challenges and people. Those of us who had the opportunity to share his life have indeed been fortunate and will miss him.

Paul Ruocchio in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I've started to type something here several times over the last day, and have not been able to find the words. I'm not sure that I have yet found them, but I will try.

My brothers (John & Pete) and I, and especially mom want you all to know how overwhelmed we are and have been as we watch this list continue to grow. I can not express how much we have appreciated, and yes shed many a tear, as we've read each and every posting. It is tremendously comforting to know that he has touched so many.

Dad was unbelievably special. I know that most people grow up believing that they have the best dad in the whole world... we really did! Yesterday was hard, very hard for us, and it has been the kind words here and the tremendous outpouring of love from all of our friends that has made this a little easier.

Dad poured all of himself into everything he did, and he never hesitated to give of what he had or to share what he knew. I'm sure as the years pass I'll come to realize even more what I've lost, and notice more and more what I have learned from him. I hope and pray that some small part of what and who he was has been passed to me.

I'm not sure how I'll adjust to his absence, and the now silent daily phone calls, or the banter as we would try to solve a problem... but I do know that seeing how much he was loved and appreciated by so many, helps fill a small part of that void.

For those of you who knew dad, or had ever met him, knew he was a big man. My wonderful wife Penny put it best. She always said: "Dad had to be that big, because his heart simply would not fit in a smaller body..." I can not do any better then that.

Thank you all so much! And Thank you dad. We love you and miss you horribly already.

TJ Kattermann in Raleigh, North Carolina:
What a terrible shock to hear news of the sudden passing of Al Ruocchio. My most vivid WCPE volunteer memories center around Al and my adventures as substitute host of the Opera House once a month back in the late eighties. I knew nothing about Opera and Al would patiently review my laboriously prepared phonetic script in our feeble attempt to avoid aggravating too many members of the Opera House Audience. In spite of his best efforts I would invariably bobble some pronunciation with the consequent flurry of phone calls soon to follow. (The proper pronunciation is MOAT-ZART, not MOW-ZART!) After several months of this I suggested perhaps I was unfit for this duty, but Al plowed on, he would hear none of it and was prepared to continue as long as I was able.

We reached some kind of epic peak together when he yielded to audience requests that WCPE broadcast a complete classic version of Die Meistersinger von Nurnberg from his personal collection contained on, as I recall, some 24 Long Play vinyl records. Hey, it was a three act opera, how bad could it be? That Thursday night the Opera House blew past every scheduled program until we finally signed off at about 2AM.

Al was an old school engineer who could use nothing more complicated than pencil and paper to explain the thoroughly modern, completely mysterious digital sampling technology at the heart of those newfangled CD's that popped up everywhere to challenge the newly obsolete analog vinyl record. With a simple diagram he demonstrated how it was possible to sample or even oversample a sound to produce a much more complete audio transcript than was possible with the older analog technology. He once engaged in rather lengthy calculations to determine the proper dimensions of a home built paint booth for his basement hobby of restoring model trains. (If the booth is too big the airflow will dry the paint too quickly, too small and the paint fumes will leach into the house, he patiently explained to me.)

Al fits into that category of people whose passing should not be mourned so much as we should marvel and celebrate the fact such men have graced us all with their lives. Fair winds and following seas Al, we will not soon see your like again.

Patrick Kernan in Cary, North Carolina:
I was pleased to discover WCPE's Opera House one Thursday night several years ago. I remained tuned in, in large part to Mr. Ruocchio's obvious enthusiasm and knowledge of whatever work was being presented that evening. I thoroughly enjoyed his program. And began to enjoy opera enough to have seen some in person the last 2 years. Thank you Al, for sharing one of your many passions with all of us. My deepest sympathy to the Ruocchio family.

Rick Ohayon in Wake Forest, North Carolina:
God rest your soul, Al. Thank you for everything.

Maria Romp in Cary, North Carolina:
Al will be missed by many, amongst them is me personally. He was a man of strong determination and courage. Whenever Al gets involved in a certain project, you can assure he will put his undivided attention, time and effort in to it until it's done. His passing will be greatly missed by so many, young and old. My deepest sympathy to his family and my prayers.

Lauren in Tacoma, Washington:
Al had the great gift of interpreting his passion, opera, and teaching what he loved with superb insight. What a thoughtful man to pre-record programs when he was so ill. I do pray for his cherished family, that God will bless them with grace and comfort them in their loss. I thank WCPE for airing Al's show --I receive it via Internet-- and for their commitment to continue his program. It keeps his memory alive and continues to bless opera lovers with Al's passion and insight. Thank you, Eleanor, for sharing your husband of many interests with a grateful public all these years.

Bob Hyman in Apex, North Carolina:
I had the dual pleasure of knowing Al as a fellow TCA member and as a supporter of WCPE. We shared the love of family, classical music and toy trains. I hope his grandchildren enjoyed the Brio Train set I traded him as much as my son Marty enjoyed the animated Lionel Switch Tower he traded me. We were at adjacent tables at a TCA swap meet that year. Greysolynne and I send our heartfelt condolences and warm memories.

Mel Bernay in Raleigh, North Carolina:
This beloved man was an institution. His passing is an incalculable loss to our community and to the world of opera. Al's exuberance, joy and zest for living so characteristically expressed on his radio show lifted spirits and gave pleasure to so many people in our listening area. May his memory live as a blessing.

Sister Sharon Ann Mihm, CSC in Bethesda, Maryland:
I have had the privilege of knowing Al and his family for more than 35 years. I taught two of his sons when they were in the primary grades at Our Lady of Lourdes in Raleigh. Their Mom was one of my Para-professionals. I love classical music because of Al's influence. I can remember going to the Opera on several occasions with Al and his family when his sons were very young. May Al's soul rest in peace and may Eleanor, Paul, John, and Peter know that they are very much in my thoughts and prayers.

Bill and Pat Knipper in Wake Forest, North Carolina:
I think all of you know by now about the death of Al. Al was probably the closest Friend that I have ever had. Al and I would fight like cats and Dogs and in the next breath we were the closest of friends and got along just like brothers. He will be greatly missed by all of us and especially me. He had the heart of gold and maybe that was the reason for the weight issue. Gold is heavy and it is wanted by everyone. Besides his family and closest friends he loved his Church and God. He was a man that would never do anything to hurt HIS Church. I will miss this man very much and even after my move to South Carolina we still kept in touch and since our move back it was like old home week between Al and I. We would call each other and joke and kid and laugh and fight and boy was it great. When we got the call this morning in SC I told Pat we are going home. Our whole family will continue Praying and I know for sure that Al's pathway into Heaven is lined with the GOLD from his heart. Anyone that had not been blessed with that Heart of Gold realy missed one of the greatest treasures in our lifetime. God Bless you Al and I will always love you. Prayers to Eleanor, Paul, John, Peter, all of the Grandchildren, and to all your spouses and families. We love you.

Harry Kachline in Anchorage, Alaska:
I will remember Al beginning each week with, "Eleanor and I have the great pleasure. . .". But it was our pleasure, Al. Thanks for sharing your love and enthusiasm for opera with the rest of us, and thanks to your family for sharing you. And thanks to WCPE for sharing the gift of so many.

Judy Hogan in Moncure, North Carolina:
I felt so sad when I heard that Al was gone. I learned to love opera in my childhood when my mother listened every Sat afternoon to the Met while she darned socks and ironed -- that was his childhood, too, when his grandfather took him to opera. I never knew the plots, but the music of the great operas became familiar. I loved Al's enthusiasm and passion for opera. It was very contagious, and I even loved to listen to his passionate fundraising, which always worked. They say "follow your passion," and I try to -- mine is to write and to teach. Al taught us all so much about opera, and I was always amazed at how much he appreciated every single one. They were all wonderful for him (the collections of "Eleanor and I") and so we all learned to hear the wonderfulness in the music. If everyone followed his passion as Al did, how lovely the world would be. Now I learn that he was born just a month before I was in 1937. That's young. I'm glad WCPE will keep broadcasting his opera programs, but Al's absence does make a huge hole. My very best to Eleanor, his sons, and their families.

Ann in Chapel Hill, North Carolina:
After moved here 14 years ago, knowing very few people, the voice of Al Ruocchio welcomed me to his opera broadcasts, a world I thought I'd left behind. His enthusiasm and eagerness to share his knowledge of opera made me feel welcome in this new place. I've continued to listen and learn with delight, as Al brought out fascinating facts both great and small that enhanced my appreciation. His broadcast has been a significant part of each week for me. I will miss his joy as he introduced each work; I will miss hearing the love in his voice as he spoke of his beloved Eleanor. To Eleanor and his family, thank you for sharing Al with us for all these years, and may his music help console you.

Larry Kirwan, WCPE Assistant Music Director and Arts Liaison:
Let us all remember that Al was one of those who helped build this station from the ground up. We at the WCPE are eternally grateful to Al and to all who helped build this wonderful place to work.

Bill Ellis in Advance, North Carolina:
Condolences to your family in this time of grief, and joy that Al now has rejoined his Heavenly Father. As someone in our group has said, we don't own the possessions of this world -- we just rent them for a brief while. Thank goodness Al was a great caretaker of his soul and his enthusiasm for life, as well as those who were fortunate enough to be touched by him. He will be sorely missed.

Carol Armstrong in East Lake, North Carolina:
On Thursday evenings I work in a gym. At seven we would hear the beautiful voice of Al Ruocchio beginning to announce his program for the evening. I always loved to hear him say, "Eleanor and I have the great pleasure of sharing with you..." and one knew instinctively that it truly was a pleasure for Al to bring us opera each week. I am not an opera fan, but Al brought such enthusiam to his broadcasts, I could not help but be "hooked". Thank you, Al. Our condolences to Eleanor and his family.

Mahlon & Rhoda Hutchison in Raleigh, North Carolina:
To say that someone left behind a bouquet of memories is definitely an apt descrition of Al Ruocchio. He was a mentor to thousands of fledgling opera listeners who never had the privilege of knowing him personally. Yet through his weekly Opera Houses, we came to know him and his passions: Eleanor, his family, opera, and this great country. His was a voice we recognized and waited to hear each Thursday.

When we started listening to WCPE 20 years ago, we thought we didn't like opera. But Al opened our eyes and ears to all the beautiful stories, music, and classical nuggets. We liked to call in our pledges when Al was on the air because he pronounced my husband's name correctly! We are sorry we never had the pleasure to meet Al.

To Al's lovely wife Eleanor, beloved sons and grandchildren: may you take comfort in knowing that anyone who knew or heard Al will never forget him. God bless and comfort you.

Chris Slacke, former WCPE announcer:
What a sad moment it is to ponder the passing of such a great man, one that you've known personally and watched 'in action.' His command of the entire studio as he settled in behind the microphone Thursday evenings was inspiring. His program, always delivered in his wonderful, staccato 'newyawkese,' grabbed your attention, imagination and heart. Imagine the wonderful mutual exchanges now occurring - "Grazie, Maestro Verdi, for the beautiful music!" "Grazie, Maestro Ruocchio, for keeping it alive!"

Speaking of keeping it alive, it will take the concerted efforts and lobbying of the entire WCPE listener-base to keep the Thursday night "Opera House" program on the air longer than 'the foreseeable future.' NOW is the time to let your opera voices be heard - lobby for the continuation of a Triangle, and now worldwide, broadcast institution! Long Live The Opera House On WCPE!!

Brenna in Raleigh, North Carolina:
He was my sister's best friends grandfather. When we were in the car Thursday nights, we would tune in, and I recall being younger, maybe six years old, and thinking it was awesome that "My sister's best friend's grandfather is famous". We were introduced to new types of music this way, and it was interesting, Thursday nights at seven... to hear a familiar voice. Al Ruocchio will greatly be missed.

Brenda Hayes in Hillsborough, North Carolina:
Each Thursday evening when Al welcomed all of us to the Opera House and told us that it was his pleasure to be our host we did, indeed, feel that even after more than 25 years he meant it with all his heart. Al brought us great opera with irrepressible enthusiasm and a passion rooted in the depths of his being. No matter how often you may have heard a given opera Al had the great gift of making it always fresh and new, a source of discovery and great pleasure. How we will miss such a warm, positive presence in our weary, strife ridden world. Yet he also left us a tremendous legacy for his life demonstrates what an impact for good one committed person can have. Al, may God richly bless you and all those you love.

Tom Danek in Pittsboro, North Carolina:
Al's voice over WCPE created a special presence. His appreciation of and enthusiasm for opera was so apparent. Thank you, Al. And may God bless.

Joe Chalovich in Greenville, North Carolina:
I always looked forward to listening to an opera from the Ruocchio collection on Thursday evenings. Al had a great voice and an infectious love of opera. Al will be greatly missed. May God bless Al and the Ruocchio family.

Terry Kelly in Apex, North Carolina:
North Carolina and the world of opera have lost a great man in Al. Prayers and condolences go out to his family, he will be always remembered.

Bradley Landon in Raleigh, North Carolina:
Al brought the beauty of opera to those who would take the time to listen without the typical condescending bragodacio common on the few remaining classical stations... His warmth and obvious love for the theatre and music of opera will be sorely missed. May his family rest easy knowing that his time with "us" was well received!

Dr. Steve Isadore in Cary, North Carolina:
We will all miss the big man with the big heart, who shared his love of life to all who could hear his voice or be touched by him. Now, we have the memories of what he has shared and taught us about opera. I already miss his almost daily e-mails. I appreciate Al for his kindness, the jokes we shared, and all the help and advice he has offered through the years. I wish to express my love, prayers and condolences to Eleanor and your wonderful family.

Jennie Gunther in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I used to volunteer at WCPE Radio at the time Al was starting his Opera House program. Our paths didn't cross at the station because I could only serve on weekends while Al became the "Voice" of Thursday night opera on WCPE. But I also knew Al from church and from my husband's participation with Al in the Knights of Columbus at St. Raphael's Church. While I am not personally a fan of opera, I will always associate any opera music I hear with Al's enthusiastic, deep voice. My strongest memory of Al however, is related to his supervising the music at the annual St. Raphael's Fall Fair -- whenever I hear the "circus music", I will remember Al. What a tremendous and humbling gift to realize your life has touched so many people -- throughout the world even -- and that you have been privileged to share with them your greatest loves -- your love of family and of great music. Al, we have been the privileged ones to share you in our lives. Your voice will continue to fall gently on our ears and resound in our hearts. Many prayers and blessings of peace and comfort to Eleanor and the boys.

Jim Schaeffer, Executive Director, Long Leaf Opera:
While I never had the pleasure of meeting Al, opera in the Triangle has lost a great friend. His enthusiasm and knowledge of opera was infectious and his program brought many converts to live opera. Long Leaf Opera sends its best wishes to Al's family and his co-workers at WCPE.

Danny Levenson in Apex, North Carolina:
Paul, John, Pete and all the rest of the Ruocchio family, I am truly sorry for your loss.

Eric Anderson in London, Ontario, Canada:
Mr. Ruocchio shared his passion and energy for Opera with great humility and became a member of my family. The timbre of his voice, his sincere passion for Opera and his ultimate caring and respect for his listening audience will remain with me for the rest of my life.

Stephanie Jones in Durham, North Carolina:
I am deeply saddened at the passing of Al Ruocchio. As a child, I was always a huge fan of classical music but not necessarily opera (I guess my young ears had to adjust to those incredibly trained voices!). That all changed more than 20 years ago when I happened upon Al's Thursday night shows. Suddenly, I found myself really paying attention to opera, and it quickly grew on me. It didn't matter in what language the music was performed; I became more and more fascinated. Al's descriptions of the storylines, his enthusiasm for each piece, each composer, each performer, were intoxicating. Soon, my own collection of music grew steadily with lilting and heart tugging oratorios and arias by the great masters, and I especially fell in love with Puccini, Rossini, Mozart and Verdi. All because of Al, who educated me and helped me love something beautiful and magical that was near and dear to his own heart.

My deepest sympathies go out to Al's wife, Eleanor, his children and grandchildren, his WCPE family, his many close friends, and the friends he made all over the world because he shared, and we listened. We may have lost a great friend in opera here on earth, but Heaven has gained another angel. God bless you, Al. You brought great joy to hundreds of thousands and we will never, ever forget you.

Ken Hoover, host of WCPE's "Great Sacred Music"
I knew Al for almost 20 years, every since I came to WCPE as a volunteer. He was always gracious and encouraging. It was not uncommon for him to call me on Sunday morning and tell me what a worship experience he had listening to my program on the way to and from his own community of faith. Occasionally during our Pledge Drives he would call in his pledge of support during my program and I would call in mine during The Opera House for I am also quite a fanatical opera fan. His death marks the end of an era. His enthusiasm, his knowledge, his panache cannot be replaced. My heart is heavy with the sense of loss his beloved family is experiencing. We will all go on with our chosen purpose in life but we will miss him so. What a life. Bravo, Al.

Charles Murphy in Durham, North Carolina:
I first got to see a "real" opera when in college in north Mississippi, thanks to a couple of avid music professors at college. We used to make a two-hundred mile round trip every spring when the Met came to Memphis, Tennessee, for two or three nights in a row. After college, I was able to listen to the Met Saturday broadcasts occasionally. Then, after a long time, I discovered WCPE and Al Ruocchio on Thursday nights. His enthusiasm for the operas he played for us each week was contagious, and filled a void long left open.

My thanks to Al, to Eleanor, and to all the rest of his family for "lending" him to us each week. It is sad to learn of his death, but so joyful to remember what he shared with us in life. Thanks, Al, and thanks to WCPE for giving him a forum.

Garvin Walter in Fredericksburg, Virginia:
Tuning into Al's Opera program last night I was shocked and very sad to hear of his death. His program has been so important in my life for some years. I can never forget hearing him the first time and being entranced by his jubilant enthusiasm and knowledgeable love of Opera. For me and I'm sure many others It will never be the same without him. My heartfelt condolences to his family and loved ones.

Michael Gray in Durham, North Carolina:
Those of us in the Durham Savoyards, who wished Al would play just a BIT more Gilbert and Sullivan, still enjoyed his comments and bantering during those few occasions. My mom went to the Met when she was growing up in New York, and I acquired her love of music and opera. Al was forever truly interested in what was going on in the plot, the music and the voices. And, as a native New Yawker, but "born-again Southerner," it was nice to hear an "up-home" accent on Thursdays. Now Al can hob-nob with Milton Cross and share stories of Saturday afternoons....

Susan Servant in Chapel Hill, North Carolina:
My husband e-mailed me after reading the obituary in the N&O. He knew how much I enjoyed "The Opera House". Al brought opera, a somewhat esoteric past time, down to earth for those of us who are just learning to appreciate it. The wonderful enthusiasm he expressed was contagious. It made me want to learn more, to listen more, and to understand what it was that made Al love this type of music so. I am pleased to say that he succeeded, so now when I listen to Verdi, or Puccini, or Mozart, I will think of Al looking down on me and shouting "Bravo." Thank you, Al. I will miss you.

Graham Smith in Branchville, New Jersey:
Thank you Al Ruocchio, and thank you Eleanor. I am a life-long opera lover -- several years older than Al. Thursday night has been WCPE Opera Night for me since the internet made it possible. How wonderful to have a weekly link to something I love. Al introduced me to operas I had never heard and "sold" them to me with his flair and fervor. I am truly sorry he is no longer with us, but thankful for all this good works -- good works that will continue so long as his programs can be enjoyed. Al Ruocchio set a high standard for thousands of unseen listeners.

Eric Hastings in Raleigh, North Carolina:
Al lit up my radio and inspired me to enjoy opera. He is a man our community will never forget. Al is now with the masters of music listening to their opening acts in Heaven. Thanks for everything, Al.

Sue Tolleson-Rinehart in Chapel Hill, North Carolina:
Al did not know it, but he so often kept me company as I was down in the basement piddling with little woodworking projects for a bit on Thursday evenings. Somehow, Al's opera recordings and a little "woodbutchering" went very well together. I will miss his companionship, and offer my sincerest condolences to his family, whose loss is so new and so sharp.

Jim Holmes in Pleasantville, New York:
Al, God bless. We never met, but I spent many wonderful hours with you. We shall meet one day, my friend.

Rob Bonter in Port Leyden, New York:
As Marcus Aurelius once observed: "He who is surprised by anything in life is a stranger to it." And so, with dignity, philosophically we must accept the reality and the untimeliness of the loss of a beloved family man, friend, and mentor in the arts to so many. I fervently hope that 20 years from now the rich inventory and treasure of Al Ruocchio opera broadcasts will still be a vital part of the American and international cultural terrain. Rest in peace, dear friend, you brought unbounded joy into the hearts of all those blessed to have come into contact with you.

James Gray in Raleigh, North Carolina:
I have been a regular listener to the opera house for over 25 years. Al Ruocchio will be missed by me and by the station. I was fortunate enough to see and talk with him briefly at the performance of "I Puritani" at North Hills the first Saturday in January. We will miss him.

David DeVey in Torrance, California:
I am very, very sorry to hear of the passing of Al Ruocchio having been a long time listener of WCPE's Thursday evening Opera House. May God be gentle with Al's wife sustaining her in this beloved man's passing until they meet again in His presence. And may He accomplish everything concerning Him in regard to Al's family and friends the world around.

Ann in Houston, Texas:
Al's Thursday evening opera broadcasts were the reason I became a member of WCPE. I'll tune in as usual, but it won't be the same without him. And of course, I will continue to support WCPE, thanks to his legacy.

Jacqueline Olich in Durham, North Carolina:
In our home, "Opera Night" became a family tradition. My kindergartner, infant son, Boston Terrier and I snuggle in my son's bed and listen to "Opera Night" during and after storytime. Al and his passion for opera brought my family and --all of his listeners-- closer. He will be missed.

Betsy Levitas in Raleigh, North Carolina:
Al Ruocchio's Opera show is one of the reasons living in Raleigh is as enriching as it is. Over 20+ years we have tuned in to enjoy familiar works and delight in new discoveries he selected for us all. Current and future opera lovers owe him and his supportive family a huge debt. A week after his passing he is regaling us with stories about Il Matrimonio Segreto, and I have discovered a new favorite composer: Cimarosa. Thank you, Al, thanks to all the family, for helping us develop a deeper understanding and appreciation of this great art form, for sharing your vibrant spirit, and for providing the countless hours of beautiful opera.

Louise Piechura in Milford, Michigan:
Right after I discovered WCPE on the Internet in the late 1990's, I happened upon Al's program. I was struck by his passion for the music and his warmth. It was as if you were in his living room and he was playing the recording for you. He really introduced me to opera. I never met him, but I will miss him. Thank you, Al.

Gustavo Montana in Chapel Hill, North Carolina:
All of us WCPE listeners and opera lovers will always be indebted to Al for his dedication to opera, to the station and his willingness to share his love for opera with us. Fortunately we will continue to hear his voice on Thursdays when we tune to the "Opera House".

Al shared his love for opera, his knowledge of it and his great record collection with us generously and unselfishly. He made many of us fall in love with opera with passion. We were most fortunate to have had him in our area for as long as we did and to continue to hear him as if he was in our midst. So long Al, you will never be forgotten!

Sandy Swanson in Durham, North Carolina:
So many wonderful tributes to Al have left little to say. But I'd like to add that, in addition to his warmth and expertise as an announcer, he was also a superb teacher, in the very best sense. I grew up in a family who appreciated classical music and was introduced to opera at an early age. I always liked it -- but it was Al who taught me to *love* it. His exuberant enthusiasm made me sit up and take fresh notice of music I'd had on in the background for years. When he told me that Musetta's Waltz was exquisite, or that te Kanawa's aria was breath-taking, he made me pay attention and really listen to them, as if for the first time. Every Thursday night, he regularly shook me out of my complacency. His energy and loving dedication to opera was like a lightening bolt, illuminating a familiar landscape in extraordinary ways.

Mark Wilson in Nevada City, California:
Listening to Al Ruocchio's spirited and loving introductions to the operas he presented were as enjoyable as the operas himself. His enthusiasm for the music was contagious, and his vast knowledge of the operas he presented was always a delightful education. He will be greatly missed by all his listeners, and I'm sure by all those whose lives he touched.

Susan Moses in Wilson, North Carolina:
Thursday nights at 7pm have been a weekly standard for me for as long as I can remember. Al exemplified the notion that opera is not an elitist sport but that opera appeals directly to the soul--soul music. Thank you, Al for the education.

Brenda in Kinston, North Carolina:
Al Ruocchio's enthusiastic knowledge of opera makes friends for this magnificient music wherever WCPE is available. All of us who listened to his programs and benefitted from his joy in sharing the music miss him. My sympathy goes to the WCPE staff and to his family. We are all richer for having known him.

Rod Gerwe in Durham, North Carolina:
Al was a wonderful person and gave much of himself to others. His opera program was great and cannot be replaced. It is very interesting that many people who are the most passionate about classical music, including opera, are not professional musicians. WCPE has many wonderful generous people on its staff.

Richard in Roanoke, Virginia:
Last Thursday (Feb, 8) was my birthday and I was taken out for the vening by family and friends. Because of this I missed the news of Al's passing until this evening. His knowledge, enthusiasm, and obvious pleasure in doing what he did on WCPE means a real loss to all of us opera lovers. Rest well, Al.

Fern Phipps in Cary, North Carolina:
Since moving to the Cary area three years ago I have looked forward to the Thursday evening presentations of opera by Al Ruocchio. It was with shock that I learned of his death. Although I never met him, One day Al called me as a listener and asked my opinion about the program. I was as honored with his call as he was with Marilyn Horne's!

He will be missed not only by his family, friends and coworkers at WCPE, but his many devoted fans who love opera as much as he did. His enthusiasic voice will continue to echo each time opera is aired!

Cinzia in Durham, North Carolina:
Being of Italian heritage, like Al, I have always been exposed to opera, but it wasn't until I heard Al on WCPE that I got "hooked" on it. The way Al pronounced names and descriptions of the story lines just swept me away. I could believe his passion, and his passion became my passion. If I closed my eyes, I could almost think I was part of the opera. Al was so doggone interesting. I just love him. I know one thing --- he will never be forgotten by anyone who ever heard him present his beloved "Opera House" on WCPE. I sure am glad that the station decided to keep running Al's shows, for now, as it will be a tribute to Al, and it is the right thing to do. And, it may seem tempting to stop listening to the "Opera House," now, but Al wouldn't want that just because he is gone. As for me, I will continue to listen every Thursday night to the "Opera House" and remember my "opera-teacher," Al. Buona notte amico !

John Huff in Chapel Hill, North Carolina:
Listening to Al talk about the opera he was presenting was like watching a kid open a wonderful guft on a birthday. I will miss him.

Stephanie in Cary, North Carolina:
I was so sorry to hear about Al's passing. Like many listeners, I felt like I knew him personally. I used to listen to WCPE for company as I worked alone after hours in my school library. When I heard Al's voice, I knew that it was time to pack up and go home! I would listen to his show on the drive home and he would transport me to another time and place. Thanks for teaching me so much about opera, Al -- mostly to just listen and enjoy it. I'll miss your "company" very much.

Kavitha in Cary, North Carolina:
I am so sorry about Al. Even though I did not know Al, I still would like to extend my condolences to his family and all of you in WCPE 89.7. I bet you all he was a hard-working and nice person to be around in IBM.

Mary Chen in Hong Kong, China:
Condolences to Al's Family & Eleanor. A poem from Hong Kong:

Rock of all Ages
foundation of time
immortal
movement
in space
at eye level
a vessel
of life
and light
and song
fascination
and joy

Victoria in South Hill, Virginia:
I discovered WCPE when I was in middle school and have been listening ever since. I loved listening to Al and the Operas he would present. He was like family. My condolences to his wife and family. You will be missed.

Stephen Smoogen in Albuquerque, New Mexico:
I lost access to the Opera due to a shift change, and when I switched back found that the person who had re-infected me with the Opera bug had passed away. I will always keep his happy and infectious voice in my heart and memory. Thank you Al for sharing your love of Opera and thank you WCPE for keeping him on the air.

 

Opera legend Marilyn Horne called the WCPE Listener Comment Line in response to Al's death. Listen to her comments. (Real Audio)

 
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